Tuesday 2 June 2015

AIM , SHOOT , HIT THE BULL’S EYE , FAST ! [ COPYRIGHT RESERVED ]

AIM , SHOOT , HIT THE BULL’S EYE , FAST !
 [ COPYRIGHT  RESERVED ]

BY  :  S. K. SENGUPTA .






1. WHY SHOULD I HAVE A GOAL ?    
 
    Without a goal , your life is going helter-skelter . It is like a ship with its engine put off in the midst of an ocean . Decide your destination , set the direction , and then put the engine on .


2. WHAT GOAL SHOULD I HAVE ?

    Call a travel agent . Tell him that you are in Delhi . Then ask , “ Where in the world should I go ? ”
     There you are . A journey begins from where you are to where you want to reach . The travel agent can help you a great deal after he knows your destination .
      The entire world is open to you . You have to choose the place that you want to reach . Research a little bit as necessary , and then make up your mind .
      Do you want a particular job with a lucrative salary ? Do you want to set up your own business ? Do you want to have a particular amount as your bank balance ? Do you want to have a particular educational qualification ? Do you want to settle abroad ?
     The ship can begin its journey only after the destination has been finalized . So make up your mind .


3. SHOULD I DREAM BIG ?

    Aim high for what you will cherish to have . If you desire to own a Honda Accord car , you cannot set up a Nano car as your goal and struggle for that . At the end of your endeavours when you achieve your goal , it should satisfy your soul . Besides , if a goal is not very attractive , you will not put up a passionate full-blooded fight to get it  .
Goals have to be ambitious so that you can achieve your full potential . But they also have to be realistic . If you jump six feet high , you can set your goal at seven feet in a high jump competition . But setting the goal at 20 feet will be impractical , unachievable and self-defeating .


4. WHAT DO THEY MEAN WHEN THEY SAY THAT GOALS HAVE TO BE  SMART ?

    S = Specific . I want to have a good educational qualification is not a goal . I want to be MBA from IIM , Bangalore is a goal because it is specific .
    M = Measurable . I want to have a fat bank balance is not a goal . I want to have Rupees 50 lakhs as my bank balance is a goal because it is measurable .
    A = Achievable . I will jump 20 feet high is not a goal because it is impossible . I will jump 7 feet high is a goal because it is achievable .
    R = Realistic . I can’t sketch , but I will become a world-class cartoonist within a week is not a goal because it is unrealistic . It may be an achievable goal with ample time in hand . But it is unrealistic within a week .
   T = Time-bound . I want to have a job with a salary of at least Rupees 30,000/- p.m. is not a goal because no time-limit has been mentioned . I want to have a job with a salary of at least Rupees 30,000/- p.m. latest by ………… ( a particular date is to be mentioned ) : that is a goal .


5. IS IT NECESSARY TO VISUALIZE MY GOAL AND THINK IN TERMS OF PICTURES ?

    Our mind is designed to think well in terms of pictures , not in terms of text . So , how we word our goals becomes important . If we can visualize our goals , we can achieve it better , because our subconscious mind understands it better .



6. WHAT DO I NEED TO DO TO CRYSTALLIZE MY GOAL ?

     Do the following :
§        Pen down your goal in words .
§        Ensure that it is challenging but not impractical .
§        Ensure that your goal is SMART .
§        Make the words in which you draft the goal as picturesque and as full of feelings , passion and emotions as possible . It is emotions which fill your goal with life , soul and action .
§        Also remember that there are no free lunches . So , you have to mention what are you going to give to the world , and what are you going to do , in order to achieve your goal .


7. GIVE ME A GOOD EXAMPLE OF A CRYSTALLIZED GOAL .

    When Bruce Lee was still struggling , he had borrowed funds from friends to purchase a wedding ring with which he married his sweetheart Linda . It was then that he had written down , in clear terms , his definite Chief Aim in life . It is reproduced below ( as it is ) to serve as an excellent example of a crystallized goal :
“ MY  DEFINITE  CHIEF  AIM :  I , Bruce Lee , will be the first highest paid Oriental superstar in the United States . In return I will give the most exciting performances and render the best of quality in the capacity of an actor . Starting 1970  I will achieve world fame and from then onward till the end of 1980 I will have in my possession 10,000,000 US Dollars . I will live the way I please and achieve inner harmony and happiness .”


8. O.K. MY GOAL IS CRYSTALLIZED : WHAT DO I DO NOW ?

    Keep repeating your crystallized goal in mind umpteen times a day . Whenever possible , close your eyes , and with joy and passion visualize that you have already achieved your goal . Believe that it is already in your possession .


9. HOW DOES REPEATING , VISUALIZING , FEELING AND BELIEVING HELP ?

    These factors deeply influence our subconscious mind . Once influenced effectively our subconscious mind is activated , and then in mysterious ways , that we still do not fully understand , it brings into play the unseen powerful cosmic forces in a bid to fulfill our desires . Opportunities keep showing up asking for our all out , relentless , full-blooded efforts . Right people and suitable circumstances appear in our lives , and after we have put in deserving efforts , the Cosmos finally gives us whatever we had been fighting for .    



10. SO WHAT’S MY ROAD-MAP FOR SUCCESS IN A NUTSHELL ?

      Work out a crystallized , SMART and challenging goal : a cherished dream . Now ink it out .
      Keep repeating and visualizing it with feelings and passion . Believe that you have already achieved it .
      Whatever opportunities show up , go all out in frenzied action to make your goal happen .
      Be willing to learn from mistakes . Be prepared to take reasonable risks . Be committed to continue in face of breakdowns and go on and on and on till you win . There will be snakes and lions on your path . Beyond all those hurdles , you will find Life waiting for you with your reward !
      The recipe for success is here . You only have to act it out !


    




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