ARE YOU
HAPPILY ASSERTIVE ?
Are you over-assertive ? Are
you argumentative ? Do you often lose your temper ? Are you unhappy about it ?
Do you often repent your behaviour and feel helpless about it ? Do you want to
change ?
Then
, please try the following :
o
Let others do the
speaking always . Listen to them .
o
Make it a point
to speak very little .
o
Ask questions
instead of stating your opinions .
Keep these three simple steps
in mind every time you interact with people . Gradually , it will become your
second nature . It will give you peace of mind , and will release a lot of
positive energy to enrich your life and to make you happy .
Are you under-assertive ? Do
you feel inferior ? Do you feel dominated by others ? Are you unhappy about it
? Do you feel shy and are you losing self-respect ? Do you want to change ?
Then
, please try the following :
o
Speak first .
Don’t wait for others to speak .
o
Speak more and
speak more spontaneously . Don’t wait to think first and then speak .
o
Give your opinions
loud and clear , whether others agree or don’t agree .
Keep these three simple steps
in mind every time you interact with people . Gradually , it will become your
second nature . You will become naturally self-confident and assertive . It
will enrich your life and you will be happy with yourself !
