Tuesday 5 November 2013

HOW TO KNOW HOW WELL YOU WILL GET ALONG WITH SOMEONE

                            

                                      VALUE-METRICS









Arrange the undermentioned values in the table given below  in order of priority in your life :
[ Note against 1 whatever is of prime importance to you .
Note against 10 whatever is of least importance in your life ]

*LOVE    *POWER    *FUN    *MONEY      *FREEDOM    *HEALTH    *SECURITY   
*ADVENTURE    *FAME    *STATUS .


1

2

3

4

5

6

7

8

9

10







Now , ask someone else to fill up the above table without seeing the one that you have filled . This person could be your girl/boy friend , your would-be life-partner , your would be room-mate , or your colleague or boss : someone that you want to know how well you are likely to get along with .

When you match the two tables now , you will know how your priorities and ways of looking at life compare with each other . If they mismatch very much you will need to compromise on a daily basis , and both of you will feel deeply frustrated . If they match well you will get along smoothly with each other .

The table will also give you a fair idea as to in which areas you are likely to clash and in which areas you will naturally gel with each other .


Value-metrics is a psychometric tool , simple yet very useful !