GIVING IS
DIVINE
by S.K.SENGUPTA
by S.K.SENGUPTA
o Be responsible in distributing an aid .
o Understand the needs of the other person . Giving just as you wish
is not a good idea . Also when you help , never make the other
person feel small or obligated . Keep also in mind to pack a little of you and your love with the gift .
o Real caring is not a passing flush of emotion . Real caring
is costly . It means weeping with those who weep . It means doing something after
we have said , “I’m sorry .” The challenge is to give
whatever may be possible in terms of time , efforts and resources .
While you help , keep this in mind :
o Think deeply for others .
o Give them your time .
o Give them space .
o Give them your understanding . Give them your
forgiveness . Give them your mercy .
o Give them a
dream .
o Give them value in whatever you are doing for them .
o Give them your disciplined and cultured behaviour .
o
Coach them . Work
hard so that you can stand for them as an example .
o
Be slim , trim ,
and well-groomed for them . Give them a
good appearance
.
Seven types of giving :
I.
Giving for
personal benefit .
II.
Giving with the
belief that it will release you from your sins .
III.
Giving to
show-off and to satisfy your ego .
IV.
Giving because
others are giving and you will feel ashamed
not to give .
V.
Giving
thoughtlessly .
VI.
Giving because
you feel it is your duty . That is moral giving .
VII.
Giving out of
pure love for the other person in the spirit of Jesus . That is spiritual
giving .
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