HOW TO CONTROL - SOME
NOTES
By S.K.Sengupta
ONE DOESN’T FIGHT FOR
CONTROL IF HE CAN CONTOL
.
BAD CONTROL IS NO CONTROL .
GOOD CONTROL IS WHEN
YOU GIVE THE
OTHER PERSON A CHOICE
, AND HE WILLINGLY AGREES TO PLAY
THE GAME , WILLINGLY AGREES TO
BE CONTROLLED .
YOU PUT A PERSON UNDER
CONTROL SO A PERSON CAN CONTROL .
WHEN YOU COMMAND
, COMMAND WITH INTENTION AND AFFINITY . APPLY
APPROPRIATE FORCE ,
NEITHER LESS NOR MORE , TO ENSURE COMPLIANCE
. DON’T LOSE
CONTROL ON YOUR
OWN INTENTION AND AFFINITY .
Control one
thing at a time and understand the principle that makes it work .
Now handle
similar and related things using the same stable principle .
When
coaching someone , teach one data or principle first . Let the student
understand and master it thoroughly . Thereafter , the student will be able to
understand and master all similar and related matter with ease .
Bad control
is uncertain , variable and unpredictable . It is non-positive and sloppy .
Good control
is certain , predictable , and positive .